Family and friends are incredibly important to us. We also strive to put our relationships first, in everything that we do.
As I (Chris) grew up, I helped raise my nieces and nephews, and I spoiled them rotten. I was known as “the smart uncle” who was always there to help them with their science fair projects or explain complex concepts in algebra and geometry. It was inspiring to see them draw connections as they learned new things, just as I had done years before.
Growing up in a single parent house, I (Jimmy) played both the role of the older brother, and the man of the house. I was largely responsible for raising my little brother, helping him with homework or pushing him to work hard towards his goals. Now that he’s starting down the path of his own family, and the journey of fatherhood, he’s told me how he wants to be the inspiring, positive influence to his family as I was to him.
For both of us, spending time together with our families is something we hold very close to our hearts.
Every major holiday, we all share a huge meal and spend time with each other. At Christmas, it’s no surprise to see our extended families, several cousins and their families, and an equal number of friends and their own families joining together for delicious food, and excellent stories and laughs. I (Chris) wish you could have seen the joy in my mom’s eyes when she excitedly realized that we could celebrate Christmas the way we did when I was younger, with tons of gifts and the opportunity to spoil a new grandkid.
For over twenty years, I (Chris) have been an uncle to four wonderful nephews and four beautiful nieces. Though they’re excited about having a new cousin, they’re also excited for me to become a dad. But you don’t have to take my word for it — here are their thoughts.
“Uncle Chris has always been a role model to me. He always encouraged me in school, and was a trusted friend while I dealt with my stressful teenage years. I think he would be an amazing dad!”
– TANNER, AGE 22
“My uncle Chris always makes me laugh. Even when I’m having a bad day. His hugs are the best. He’s definitely the smartest one in our family. I love him so much, and really want him to become a dad!”
– BRETNEY, AGE 16
“Uncle Chris has always been there for me. When my mom went through her divorce, he was by her side to help support her. Usually that meant helping pick me up after school and taking me to my soccer games. He’s definitely the kind of dad I wish I had. He tells corny jokes, but we still love him.”
– LONDON, AGE 11
“Chris is going to be an incredible father. I remember growing up how we’d always play video games together, and how when I turned 16, he taught me how to drive. He’s got a great heart, and a good head on his shoulders. His child is going to be very lucky to have Chris for his dad.”
– DYLAN, AGE 22